Monday, May 21, 2018

7 Ways to Keep Your Husband Happy

Keeping your husband happy isn't such a daunting task.  In this situation, you have to think like a man, as hard as that may be.  You can do it!  Here are seven ways to keep your husband happy that you can use to help you along the way.

7. Be Pleasant

No husband wants a wife who is unpleasant and has a nasty attitude towards every situation possible.  The key to keeping your husband happy and keeping all of your marbles is to be a lady.  A lady is graceful, pleasant, and smells great!  You may not like his friends or relatives, but one of the best ways to keep your husband happy is to be pleasant.  Don't forget to smile!

6. Be Outgoing

One thing you can do to make your sweetie smile is be outgoing.  Not too many spouses want a wife who sits at home and does nothing but complain about the things she can change, but chooses not too.  You need to have drive and motivation.  Independence falls in this category. There is nothing wrong with having your own funds, vehicle, and other items.  Men like to sit and talk about how great their wife is.  If he doesn't have anything to compete with, he will feel he already lost the race.

5. Clean and Tidy

A wife is expected to do a lot of things, such as keeping the home clean.  Let's be honest, a lot of men don't know what they're doing when it comes to keeping things clean and tidy, and they need all the help they can get.  If you are a stay-at-home wife, there's no reason the home shouldn't be clean and tidy.  A man's home is one of his pride and joys.  A wife who can keep it tidy and clean is a sign of a woman who tells her husband to pick up after himself!  Don't let your husband run you ragged.  You can maintain a clean and tidy household by doing the basics on a schedule, not picking up after every mess he makes.

4. Dress Appropriately

A husband wants to be proud of his wife like a wife wants to be proud of her husband.  If you walk out of the house like you just left a rap video shoot, your husband will not be pleased.  If you want to be treated like a lady, dress like a lady and carry yourself like one.  You don't have to cover everything from head to toe, but there is a way to be sexy while simultaneously being fully clothed.

3. Attend Special Events

When your husband has special company meetings, don't be afraid to dress up and show off!  Mix and mingle with people and network as much as you can.  A husband loves to show off his wife.  A men who feels he has a good wife will not hesitate to involve her in everything he does, especially his career.

2. Keeping up Appearances

When it comes to keeping up appearances, women are known for doing this more than men.  Whether you are in the house all day or going out, you should look presentable.  To some women, this is a bit over the top, but when you always look and smell good, you can never go wrong!  Be pretty and make yourself known!


Aretha Franklin is not the only person who wanted respect.  If you belittle your man, you do not respect him.  Men have more fragile egos than women, whether they decide to show it or not.  You don't have to tread lightly, but respect should be universal in the relationship.  A man who feels he has a place in the world is a happy man and a happy spouse.

Sunday, May 20, 2018

Long Term Relationship Qualities to Look For While Dating

Have you ever noticed the qualities of people that have been in long term relationships? Have you noticed their personality, how they take care of their body, how they dress, or how they treat others? If you study people that are in a lasting relationship, you will most likely notice similar qualities among all of them. Today, a list of attributes and qualities will be provided for you to look for in your current partner or in those you are interested in to determine if a long term relationship is likely to occur.

8) Cares about their health

The health of an individual can tell you nearly everything that you need to know. Look for someone that has a health conscious diet and hobbies. The person does not have to be a fitness model or gym guru, but they should take care of their health.

7) Intelligence

One of the best attributes to have and to look for in other is that they display some form of intelligence. This does not mean that they have to be a genius, but they should be able to hold a conversation and be skilled in some specific trade or activity.

6) Willing to provide compliments, compromise, and show unconditional love

This one is very important because nobody is perfect. Look for someone that enjoys being with you no matter what and is supportive. This is a trait that will help you through the tough times that occur in long term relationships.

5) Someone who is an animal lover or great with kids

This one is important for those of you who are looking for a family. Typically, those who own pets, love animals, or are great with kids are the ones that are the same way with children of their own.

4) Entertaining and fun to be around

People with a great sense of humor and nice personality make the best partners in a relationship. If you are down, then they will pick you up and make your day better.

3) They look to help you improve and teach you new things

This should not be taken the wrong way! They do not look to “improve” you because you are flawed by any means. This quality is used so that you can grow together, share more interests, and become closer as a couple.

2) Someone you can trust and is faithful

This should be a given. If the person lies often or has cheated in the past, then they will most likely do it in the future.

1) Shares the same values

Your values should be a deciding factor for you. Find someone who believes in the same things you do or is at least willing to acknowledge them. This will form a tight bond for a lasting relationship.

Saturday, May 19, 2018

What It Means To Wear A Ring On The Middle Finger

There's a lot of hullabaloo about the significance of ring-wearing. People have opinions; from friends, to teachers, to psychics and astrologers. Traditionally however, there are some pre-defined rules that govern what fingers means in each culture. For example, in most cultures, wearing a ring on the third finger of the left hand (commonly called the 'ring finger') is predominantly associated with being in a serious long-term relationship such as a marriage or an engagement to be married. The other fingers may represent different things to different people from different cultures. Today however, we're throwing the spotlight on the middle finger and the message that's conveyed when you wear a ring on your middle finger.


What It Really Means
Enter middle finger...
While it's very uncommon to find people wearing rings on this finger, it is not unlikely. So what does finger three really signify?
Well, generally, wearing a ring on any finger other than the third on your left hand is interpreted simply as being a fashion statement. It obviously depends on the tastes the person wearing the ring you know. Some people prefer to make this "fashion statement" using their pinky finger, while others prefer the middle finger; so it's really a matter of preference to wear a ring on the tall man and doesn't necessarily mean anything in most cultures. After all, one could buy a pinky ring but lose some weight later. Thus, leaving the middle finger as the only finger that the ring will fit on properly without being lose and falling off. It could even be some sort of a family or fraternity tradition. Who knows?
It's definitely best to assume that it is a fashion statement or better still, inquire about its significance to the person wearing the ring because, if our personal experiences are anything to go by, people generally don't like assumptions to be made about them. Speaking of assumptions, here's another interpretation of the meaning of wearing a ring on your longest digit that lends itself more to 'new age' stuff. Keep an open mind as you dive in!
The Alternative Take On Things

Enter 'new age' astrology stuff...
According to astrologers and psychics, every finger (except the thumb) corresponds to a certain astrological body. The middle-finger aligns itself to Saturn (or Apollo if you're left-handed). Saturn lends itself to the more structured side of life and expresses things such as discipline, justice, determination and responsibility; it is very expressive of Yang energy and thus lends itself to a very heavy energy when emphasized to its extremities. It would serve one well to wear rocks/gems on this finger that are more expressive on Yin energy so as to provide a good balance of life energies. Aquamarine, blue sapphire, rose quartz and amethyst are examples of good gems to wear for Saturn.
En fin, the simplest conclusion is that we can never really tell what reasons people have for wearing rings on any finger(s) other than the third finger/'ring finger' of the left hand unless they tell us explicitly tell us whether or not it has some deeper, hidden meaning that extends beyond being merely a fashion statement. Thus, wearing a ring on digit III may interpreted as being a fashion statement unless the person wearing the ring on that finger states otherwise.

Friday, May 11, 2018

Is There a Dating Black Man Site?

The men on most dating sites will already have made a profile so that you can take a look at their picture and read all about them. They will have said how old they are, given their height and other relevant details to help you find your perfect match. They will also have written a small paragraph about themselves including information that they would like prospective dates to know.

The men on most dating sites will already have made a profile so that you can take a look at their picture and read all about them. They will have said how old they are, given their height and other relevant details to help you find your perfect match. They will also have written a small paragraph about themselves including information that they would like prospective dates to know.
You can then ask other questions and build up a picture which will tell you if you would like to meet up with this person or not. If you decide that you do want to meet, you should choose a place which is public for the first time, just until you get to know them a little better. The very first time you actually see each other, you will feel as though you have already met. That's one of the great things about dating sites, they give you the opportunity to really get to know someone before you meet face to face.
That way, most of the formal stuff is out of the way. When you do actually take the plunge and meet, you are more relaxed and at ease with each other. Dating black men sites, and other sites are extremely popular and once you join, you can view as many profiles as you want, chat to as many people as you like and all your information and e mails are totally private.
Even before you join, you can take a look at the people on there, you just won't be able to contact them until you become a member. When you decide you want to join, you will be asked to answer some short questions about yourself. It is best to be as honest as possible because if you aren't you will attract people that are not compatible. You won't attract the ones that are suited to you the most, so answer questions as accurately as possible. When you write the short profile about yourself, make it interesting and a bit humorous as you don't want to seem boring.
Don't reveal too much though, you want people to ask questions. When you put your picture on the site, make sure you smile and look friendly. If the thought of all this makes you worry, then don't. There is lots of help and advice if you need it, the people who run sites like dating a black man and all the other sites are very experienced in what they do, so they will help you every step of the way. So go on, get looking now, you have nothing to lose and so much to gain, meet that someone special today!

Friday, May 4, 2018

Top 22 Love Quotes

My top 22 best love quotes. Have fun!

Quick Ideas to Keep Your Husband Happy

In today’s busy world, it’s easy to unintentionally neglect the attention that you pay to your husband. Just like with any relationship, you have to make a conscious effort to keep your partner happy and do so without expecting anything back in return. These few ideas below do not take much effort but will show him you care:

  • When your husband makes an effort to clean around the house or do a particular chore that you have asked him to do, thank him to show appreciation.
  • After a day at work, ask him about the details of his day and stay engaged in what he tells you.
  • Cook his favorite meal or bake his favorite dessert.
  • Text him from time to time just to let him know that you are thinking about him.
  • Make time for intimacy. Between work, kid’s activities and dinners, this can often be a low priority but in his mind, it’s the highest priority.
You don’t have to do all these ideas every day or even every week but slowly making an effort and incorporating these ideas and others will make for a happy husband.